| Talk to any L.A. dreamer and you will
be sure to hear that rejection played a big part in their
pursuit of passion. There are endless auditions, idea
pitches, castings, discussions and deals on the boil. And
you'll hear a lot of the time things don't always work out
the way people would like them to. But even then the Los
Angelinos say it's OK, because it's simply a case of 'this
or something better'.
When I was 24 I was in a job that made me extremely
unhappy. I remember going for an interview and I was
desperate to get it because I wanted out of that place. A
few days after the interview I found out I didn't get the
job and I was shattered. It wasn't so much about the job, it
had more to do with the fact that I was counting on that
role as my escape route.
At that stage I hadn't cottoned on to the 'this or
something better' concept.
Fortunately, a week later I went on another interview and
ended up getting a job that was so much better and offered
double the salary. Like the L.A. locals I now know 100% that
if the situation doesn't work out the way I want, it's
because there's something much better around the corner. And
in that realization I also understood the benefit of not
being attached to the outcome, let me tell you, when you
think like this it takes a load off.
Sure you may still feel a little disappointed but you
know that everything is going to work out and there is
something really freeing about that. Now, let's add another
aspect - timing.
As I mentioned previously, I can be a little impatient, I
want it and I want it now! But things don't always happen in
our time.
Five years ago I wrote a book and sent it to agents to
see if they were willing to represent me. I had a few agents
interested which was exciting. It was a case of, "They like
me, they really, really like me". Well in the end they
didn't like me that much because nothing become of it.
Around the same time, I also tried a few other ventures to
do with writing and speaking and they never quite got off
the ground.
But I look back and I'm thankful they didn't and here's
why. I had to grow up and grow in to my purpose and in the
end that took a few extra years. So everything turned out as
it should have.
So forget the smog and traffic of L.A. and celebrate the
lessons the City of Angels can offer.
They sure know how to have and hold onto a dream and make
it a reality,
They get that sometimes it may seem like you have to let
go of a lot and make big sacrifices to pursue a passion. But
in reality when they get to the other side and look back
they weren't really missing out on much at all and what they
gained was more than they could have ever imagined.
Many who have achieved their dreams feel blessed to be so
well rewarded for their work, they're proof that when you do
what you love the money will come. And they go with the
flow, knowing if a situation doesn't turn out, it simply
means there's now plenty of space for something better to
come your way and the timing is perfect.
May your life be filled in L.A. style inspiration! |